Information about our book "How To Survive Your Teen's Pregnancy: Advice for the Parents of a Christian Pregnant Single"

Topics in our book include:

  • -Hearing the shocking news
  • -The importance of first words
  • -Supporting my daughter as she makes decisions
  • -First steps to take
  • -The pregnancy resource center
  • -The doctor appointment
  • -Where will we be in a year?
  • -Restoring sexual integrity
  • -Completing school
  • -Trying to hide
  • -How will my church respond?
  • -Where is God in all of this?
  • -Talking with my husband
  • -Who is the pregnant single mother?
  • -What is my daughter feeling?
  • -Where does the baby's father belong in all this?
  • -Forgiving the baby's father
  • -Forgiving the young man's parents
  • -Sharing with family and friends
  • -Forgiving myself
  • -Forgiving my daughter
  • -Forgiving unkind acquaintances
  • -Beauty from ashes
  • -Should they marry?
  • -Teen marriage success
  • -The importance of a father
  • -Should she parent alone?
  • -Should we adopt the baby?
  • -Should she make an adoption plan?
  • -Our hope for the next five years
  • -Childcare responsibilities
  • -The baby is born
  • -Dedication service
  • -Single moms and church
  • -Parental authority over a minor
  • -Parental rights regarding abortion
  • -Discussion and decision checklist
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Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Most teen pregnancies caused by adult men

In the news article linked to in the title of the post, there is a quote that says "Half of the time, a teen pregnancy does not even involve two teens close in age. The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy estimates 52 percent of the fathers are three years or more older than the moms; and about two-thirds of the fathers are age 20 and over."

The statistic which says that "about two-thirds [66%] of the fathers are age 20 and over" includes 19-year old girls who are pregnant by 20 year old (and older) men. It also includes very young teens who are pregnant by men who are not teens themselves.

The other statistic above says that 52% of the time, a teen girl is pregnant by a male at least 3 years older than herself.

The article continues with an example, "In Illinois, the largest group of fathers involved in fathering a child with a teenage mother were between the ages of 20 and 24 -- that age group accounted for 48 percent of teen births during 2006, the latest year available. Only 10 percent of the fathers were under age 18."

Is an age difference of three years or more a big deal? For teens it definitely is:
"The older the partner, the greater the risk for abuse. One in five American teen girls has had sex with a sexual partner who is three or more years older, according to a report released in April by Child Trends, an independent research center that focuses on children and families. Even if the relationship is consensual, there is a significant power difference that puts the man in a controlling role. The risk of unplanned pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease increases significantly with older partners because they are less likely to use condoms, the report said."

If your teen daughter is pregnant by a male three or more years older than her, you may decide to talk to a lawyer about the statuatory rape laws for your state. Are your other children dating people that are too old or too young for them (a three year age difference or more)? If so, consider intervening in that relationship. And talk to all your teens about dating and sex. We posted previously about how you can talk to your kids to help them avoid teen pregnancy.

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